An April 2014 Readers Digest article titled Little Secrets about Big Websites included an item about Gary Kremen, who founded in 1993. The item went on to say: “In the two decades since, the site has led to untold numbers of dates, engagements, and marriages. It has also led to at least one very notable broken heart: Kremen’s: Yes, after the founder of and his girlfriend broke up, she married someone she’d met on”

Learning the hard way

May 19, 2015

I’m climbing on my soapbox again to speak my mind. This time, I want to tell you about a medical-insurance problem I had a few months ago.

The problem started in November, when I enrolled in a Medicare Part D plan sponsored by Silverscript, which would be effective in January. I selected the Silverscript plan after learning I could add it to my retiree prescription insurance through Southern Company. Had I chosen a different Medicare Part D plan, I would have had to drop my Southern Company prescription insurance.

In early January, I called Silverscript to refill my prescription for Ampyra, a medicine that helps me walk. Ampyra is the only FDA-approved product “indicated to improve walking in patients with multiple sclerosis,” according to the Ampyra website.

I have taken the drug for five years and am accustomed to getting the prescription filled by the CVS/Caremark specialty pharmacy in a day or two. In this case, I was unable to get the medication for 60 days. I spent hours during January and February talking with customer service representatives from Silverscript, Ampyra, CVS/Caremark and Southern Company’s benefits service center, trying to resolve the problem.

By the time I received a month’s supply of the drug in early March, I had fallen and fractured my pelvic bone in two places.

Here is a sample of the problems I encountered:

  • Silverscript quoted me $750 for a month’s supply of the medication. (I had previously paid $40 a month.)
  • When I balked at the price, Ampyra suggested I apply for an income-based Prescription Assistant Program. Thirty days later, I called and found I had not been approved for the program.
  • During subsequent calls to Silverscript, I realized that the company was unaware of my Southern Company insurance coverage.
  • Then, I was told Silverscript couldn’t file a claim for the medication, because both plans were listed as my primary coverage and neither as secondary.
  • When I resolved those issues, I attempted again to fill the prescription. Silverscript told me I would have to pay $750 out-of-pocket when they filed the claim. After the claim was finalized, I would have to file a separate claim with Southern Company. After the second claim was finalized, I would be reimbursed $690 of the $750. (Good news: The prescription would cost only $60.)
  • On the advice of a rep at CVS/Caremark, I asked Silverscript to coordinate the benefits on the claim so I wouldn’t have to pay anything out-of-pocket. The rep at Silverscript agreed. (Sometimes, you just need to know what question to ask.)

In retrospect, I was pleased with my experience with the customer service reps at CVS/Caremark and Southern Company’s benefit service center. They were instrumental in resolving my issues. But the reps at Ampyra and Silverscript – not so much. It seemed they lacked the knowledge and ability to help me.

The good news is that after two months back on Ampyra, my walking ability has begun to improve. The bad news is that the injury to my pelvic bone, which has not healed, makes walking painful and difficult. My doctor has ordered me to rest and limit exercise.

It may be another month before the pain subsides and I can resume my normal activities. Meanwhile, my lack of exercise has weakened the muscles in my legs, so I will need physical therapy to strengthen my legs again.

challenge walk logoIf you follow my blog regularly, you may already know that I volunteered to work during the three-day 50-mile MS Challenge Walk from Savannah to Tybee Island, Georgia, on March 6-8. I had a lot of fun volunteering during the walk, and I met a lot of people from all over the southeast U.S.  — people who have been diagnosed with MS,  their family members and friends. (See my March 9 post.)

As a part of a team that represented the National MS Society’s Alabama-Mississippi chapter, I was able to raise more than $1,600 for this regional event. I want to thank each of  you who made a contribution! This year’s Savannah challenge walk raised a total of more than $600,000.

But that’s not all, folks. On April 11, I will participate in the Birmingham MS Walk to help the Alabama chapter raise money for cutting-edge research and life-changing local programs for people diagnosed with MS and their families. I have participated in this local event for close to 20 years. In the past, I have served as team captain of the Alabama Power team, and, this year, I am serving as team captain of the Splashers.

The Splashers team is made up primarily of members of the Lakeshore Foundation’s MS Aquatics Class. We are a support group and exercise class all rolled into one.  Many of us have been diagnosed with MS, but our family members and friends also walk. I had attended the class for 10 years, and our team has participated in this local walk event for more than 5 years.

If you haven’t made a donation to the Birmingham MS Walk, and if you would like to support my efforts and the efforts of the SMS walk logoplashers team, please go to, click on “support an event participant,” and make a donation. Thanks for your help in finding a cure for MS.



msaa_logoNOTE: This post is about the important work that the Multiple Sclerosis Association of America (MSAA) does. MSAA observes MS Awareness Month to increase the awareness of this disease.

For readers who are new to this blog, let me explain that multiple sclerosis is a central nervous system disorder that affects more than 400,000 Americans and approximately 2.5 million people worldwide. It is characterized by a variety of symptoms, including fatigue, weakness and mobility issues. While there is currently no cure for MS, there are treatments, therapies and medical devices that help individuals living with the disease manage the pain and discomfort it causes.

“Our mission at MSAA is to improve lives today for individuals living with MS and their loved ones,” said MSAA President and CEO Douglas Franklin. “Our services offer people with MS the assistance they need to live fuller lives, with greater comfort, safety and knowledge. MSAA’s resources, including our website, publications and programs, are all dedicated to providing vital information and support.”

MSAA provides a host of educational resources to the MS community, including events and other programs, such as My MS Resource Locator®, an online database that helps connect individuals with resources in their area; a toll-free Helpline staffed by experienced specialists with a social services background, and programs offering cooling equipment, MRI assistance and other services.

These programs are all made possible, in part, by MSAA’s ongoing national fundraiser, Swim for MS. Participants set a swimming-related challenge and recruit friends and family to donate to MSAA when they reach their goal. Swim for MS challenges can be done in any pool at any time, which makes it an easy way for supporters to raise funds and awareness for MSAA programs.

“March is an ideal time to join Swim for MS,” Franklin said. “To date, our participants have raised more than $320,000 to help fund programs that are making a significant difference in the lives of individuals living with MS.”


I began writing this blog entry at 5 am on Saturday, the second day of a Three-Day Challenge Walk adventure to benefit the National Multiple Sclerosis Society. I will post it on Monday, when I return home.

The 50-mile got under way on Friday in Savannah, Georgia, and ended on the beach at Tybee Island on Sunday. I was only one of 100 volunteers who supported the 250 walkers who participated in this regional event, which has already raised more than $550,000 in donations.

Even though the event will be over by the time you read this, you can still support my personal fundraising goal of $1,500 and the overall 2015 Challenge Walk MS Savannah goal of $575,000. To make a contribution, go to my personal fundraising page at

Thank you for your contribution!

Blogging 101 redux

March 2, 2015

Gentle readers,

My first attempt at the WordPress Blogging 101 course in November was not successful. I can’t even remember why I didn’t stick with it. Regardless, I have enrolled in the course again, and plan to stay with it to the bitter end. 

The first Blogging 101 assignment is to blog about who I am and why I’m here. It’s been more than three years since I started this blog and explained what I was doing, so here’s a recap for those of you who were tardy getting to this party:

I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis (MS) in 1998. After I retired from a corporate public-relations job in 2005, I began working part-time as an adjunct instructor teaching news writing at a nearby university (Roll Tide!), and, at about the same time, I started working as a freelance writer. After a couple of years, I gave up the teaching position, but I continue to freelance.

In early 2011, I joined a writers group. When the topic of blogging came up during a meeting, I announced to the group that I planned to start a blog about MS. As the idea took shape, I decided I would educate others about the condition by blogging about my personal experiences — good and bad. And, because MS doesn’t define me, I also blog about other topics. These days, one of those topics is online dating. (What a zoo that is!)

Anyway, here’s my first post from my blog, dated June 6, 2011. It was titled, It’s not the heat, it’s the humidity:

Here are three good reasons to have a blog titled “MS with a Southern accent.”

First, a lower percentage of people in the southern U.S. are said to have MS, as compared to those who live in the northern part of the country. In fact, in all parts of the world, MS is more common at latitudes that are farther from the equator. As a result, this blog approaches MS from a slightly more tropical perspective.

Second, Southerners are purported to be natural-born storytellers, so this blog should practically write itself with only a little help from me.

And third, the Deep South is the hottest and most humid place to live in the whole country. Throw MS into the mix, and it’s not pretty. It makes my hair frizzy and my MS symptoms worse. I probably spend at least four months of each year holed up at home so I can minimize the effects of heat and humidity. On the other hand, I have plenty of time to write.

Looks like I found my niche.

(NOTE: The original post has been edited. I corrected typos and made a few changes to tighten it up and improve its accuracy. I guess I’m an editor at heart.)

(NOTE: I realize this post is dated Feb. 12, but that is a WordPress error I cannot correct. This information is in fact being posted on Feb. 22.)

Beware, gentle readers, I’m still on my soapbox. It’s been 22 days since my last post, “Lost in the medical-insurance maze,” wherein I told the story of my attempt to work with a pharmaceutical company to obtain a discounted price for an otherwise expensive medication.

Long story short, my medical insurance plan changed at the first of the year, and my price for this prescription increased from $40 to $631 a month. Since that time, I have applied to a prescription assistance program that could reduce my cost for the drug, and I am still waiting to hear if I have been accepted to the program.

My diagnosis of multiple sclerosis adversely affected my ability to walk more than 10 years ago, and this medication is the only FDA-approved drug that improves walking in people with MS. It is a relatively new drug, so it’s not available in generic form. For the past few years, this medication has helped me walk better.

About seven weeks have passed since I have had access to the drug. And even though I continue to minimize my walking as much as possible, my leg muscles now feel weaker and fatigue more easily than before.

Last week, I fell and bruised my right hip. Walking is painful, and I can’t walk as far or as fast as I did before I fell. I’m still making it to the grocery store and the mailbox, but that’s about it.

I hope to hear good news about the medication on Monday, but if I don’t get a letter in the mail from the pharmaceutical company, I will give them another call and ask about my case.

Gentle readers, I will let you know if I am accepted to the prescription-assistance program and can once again afford to take this medication that has done so much to improve the quality of my life. 

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